There are plenty of things men find attractive and sexy and knowing these is essential if you want to get a guy to want you.  From clothes to physical form and even manners, there are things that men find very attractive and sexy in a woman.   Some of these may even surprise you. 

Top 10 things men find sexy and attractive

1. Girl next door

To get a guy to want you, sometimes it pays to be the typical girl next door.  Men do like the model types but they also desire someone who is simple and has a realistic character.

2. Having a not so perfect body

You may hate your rounded bellies or big butt, but some men do find that attractive.  It’s because they like soft and curvy being as they are more on the angular side.  Also, it reminds them that you’re natural and if you’re not so perfect, then they don’t need to be.

3. Can you hold your liquor?

Gone are the days when women are not allowed to order pints and are expected to take dainty sips when drinking alcohol.  But if you’re the type of girl who doesn’t care what people think of you as you hold your liquor, then he’ll know that you are confident enough about who you are.

4. Tone down the fashionista in you

Some women would go all out when it comes to clothes.  They may even refuse to see a guy unless they know they’re wearing something fabulous.  But some men do appreciate the casual attire because again, it reminds them that she’s confident with who she is.

5. Don’t look too perfect

Women often think that men only approach other women who are physically appealing or look too perfect.  However, a lot of men choose to approach the no-so perfect woman.  It’s not that they think she’s blemished or not attractive, but these women are easier to approach.  

6. Keep an open mind

If a woman is broad and open minded, then men often find her to be attractive.  They appreciate a woman who has her own views and ideas.  It goes to show that when it comes to being sexy, it’s not just the physical appearance that matters.

7. Hygiene

While it’s great if you try your best to look good, don’t forget your personal hygiene.  Women who smell good is also a turn-on for men.  Some men even like it when a girl washed her hair and they’re able to smell her shampoo.  Don’t forget, sexiness also means being clean.

8. Are you good with kids?

Men find it attractive when a woman is good with kids.  If he sees you playing with his kid nephews and nieces then you’re showing him your patient and caring side.

9. Flirty but not trashy

You can wear short dresses and tank tops that show off your legs and your figure.  Just be sure you don’t cross the line to being trashy and reveal too much.  It’s okay to show a little cleavage but leave some to his imagination.  Men like women who can wear sexy yet respectable clothes.

10. Witty and humorous

If you’re too intellectual, then men may be intimidated by you.  It helps to relax and joke around.  You need to show your witty and humorous side.

Being confident and showing off your sexy side is important if you want to get a guy to want you.  He wants to be with a  woman who’s not afraid to show her confidence and doesn’t care about what others think.

Wanting to impress a guy she’s interested in is what every woman wants to know.  When it comes to building relationships with other people, it is essential to make a good first impression.  You need to impress him not just with your looks, but with your personality as well.

So what do you need to do to impress a guy?

When you are meeting new people you need to be able to communicate clearly.  You won’t make a very good impression if you’re too nervous and end up stuttering and not even form a clear sentence.  He might find it annoying listening to you if they can’t understand half of what you’re saying.

Try speaking in a well-modulated voice and pace yourself.  You need to enunciate properly because he will end up disregarding you if he can’t comprehend what you’re telling him.

Of course you’re nervous but if you want to make a good impression, then don’t be too eager to impress him.  You will only end up making mistakes such as talking too fast or even tripping over a table.  Take a deep breath and don’t worry too much about the outcome.

It won’t hurt to have fun as well.  If you look like you’re enjoying yourself, then it will make him more relaxed around you.  Besides, it’s contagious when someone is having a good time.  Not to mention you’re more attractive when you smile.

Physical appearance is also important so dress appropriately.  Of course, appropriate means that you can be sexy without giving him a too-generous view of your cleavage.  Leave some for his imagination to keep him wanting more.

Mind your posture as well.  If you have a good posture then it shows that you are confident.  You will look insecure if you slouch and fold your arms across your chest.  You don’t want him to think that you’re insecure, don’t you.  After all, men prefer a woman who is confident in her own skin.

You may have strong opinions about something but it doesn’t mean that you have to attack his ideas if you don’t agree with him.  This is a date, not a debate.  You need to respect his opinions as well.

It’s also a bad idea if you try to make the conversation all about you.  You need to ask him about himself as well to show that you really want to get to know him.  If you talk too much or reveal too much about yourself, then there’s no mystery left.  Worse, you might see his eyes glazed over because he got bored with your ranting.

When you’re having a conversation with someone, it’s important to pay attention and be a good listener.  In a subtle manner, you can let him know that you’re listening to what he’s saying.  Nod a few times and say things like “I see” to show him that he has your attention.  Ask questions if you’re not sure of what he’s saying and be sure not to interrupt him.

Trying to impress a guy and making good first impression is not as complicated as you may think.  Basically, it all comes down to good manners.  Don’t try too hard and just try to relax so that you won’t appear over eager to win his affections.