Wanting to impress a guy she’s interested in is what every woman wants to know.  When it comes to building relationships with other people, it is essential to make a good first impression.  You need to impress him not just with your looks, but with your personality as well.

So what do you need to do to impress a guy?

When you are meeting new people you need to be able to communicate clearly.  You won’t make a very good impression if you’re too nervous and end up stuttering and not even form a clear sentence.  He might find it annoying listening to you if they can’t understand half of what you’re saying.

Try speaking in a well-modulated voice and pace yourself.  You need to enunciate properly because he will end up disregarding you if he can’t comprehend what you’re telling him.

Of course you’re nervous but if you want to make a good impression, then don’t be too eager to impress him.  You will only end up making mistakes such as talking too fast or even tripping over a table.  Take a deep breath and don’t worry too much about the outcome.

It won’t hurt to have fun as well.  If you look like you’re enjoying yourself, then it will make him more relaxed around you.  Besides, it’s contagious when someone is having a good time.  Not to mention you’re more attractive when you smile.

Physical appearance is also important so dress appropriately.  Of course, appropriate means that you can be sexy without giving him a too-generous view of your cleavage.  Leave some for his imagination to keep him wanting more.

Mind your posture as well.  If you have a good posture then it shows that you are confident.  You will look insecure if you slouch and fold your arms across your chest.  You don’t want him to think that you’re insecure, don’t you.  After all, men prefer a woman who is confident in her own skin.

You may have strong opinions about something but it doesn’t mean that you have to attack his ideas if you don’t agree with him.  This is a date, not a debate.  You need to respect his opinions as well.

It’s also a bad idea if you try to make the conversation all about you.  You need to ask him about himself as well to show that you really want to get to know him.  If you talk too much or reveal too much about yourself, then there’s no mystery left.  Worse, you might see his eyes glazed over because he got bored with your ranting.

When you’re having a conversation with someone, it’s important to pay attention and be a good listener.  In a subtle manner, you can let him know that you’re listening to what he’s saying.  Nod a few times and say things like “I see” to show him that he has your attention.  Ask questions if you’re not sure of what he’s saying and be sure not to interrupt him.

Trying to impress a guy and making good first impression is not as complicated as you may think.  Basically, it all comes down to good manners.  Don’t try too hard and just try to relax so that you won’t appear over eager to win his affections.